


Relational Rite of Passage for Alicia : Ceremony of Completion, Sovereignty & Reawakening
Held at your Retreat Space in Montecito · Beginning August 10
This Relational Rite of Passage is a ceremonial journey of reclamation, designed to support you in fully honoring what has been, releasing what no longer serves, and stepping into the next iteration of yourself—one rooted in truth, sovereignty, and embodied grace.
After years of entanglement, devotion, conflict, and hope, you find yourself at such a threshold. Not only is the relationship itself dissolving—but something deeper is ready to be released: the illusion that things might one day be different, that the version of love you’ve longed for might still emerge from the same place.
This is not just an ending. It is a sacred severance. And it is also—perhaps more importantly—an emergence.
This is a container for emotional alchemy, for the quiet unwinding of hope, for the conscious closing of a story whose shape you’ve outgrown. And it is also a space for radiance to return—for the voice within you that knows you are made for joy, beauty, and creative freedom to once again take the lead.
These sessions are held gently but powerfully and are designed not just to support emotional release, but to invite profound clarity, creative visioning, and embodied reintegration.
What You Will Be Held Through
Emotional untangling from decades of partnership
Releasing blame, shame, and exhausted patterns of conflict
Metabolizing grief and the tenderness of finality
Honoring your capacity for compassion while protecting your energy
Restoring inner boundaries and energetic sovereignty
Cultivating trust in solitude as a space of creativity and power
Visioning the woman you are becoming—and the life that longs to meet her
By the end of this passage, you will embody this shift and know how to meet your life from within, with clarity and wholeness.
Held at your Retreat Space in Montecito · Beginning August 10
This Relational Rite of Passage is a ceremonial journey of reclamation, designed to support you in fully honoring what has been, releasing what no longer serves, and stepping into the next iteration of yourself—one rooted in truth, sovereignty, and embodied grace.
After years of entanglement, devotion, conflict, and hope, you find yourself at such a threshold. Not only is the relationship itself dissolving—but something deeper is ready to be released: the illusion that things might one day be different, that the version of love you’ve longed for might still emerge from the same place.
This is not just an ending. It is a sacred severance. And it is also—perhaps more importantly—an emergence.
This is a container for emotional alchemy, for the quiet unwinding of hope, for the conscious closing of a story whose shape you’ve outgrown. And it is also a space for radiance to return—for the voice within you that knows you are made for joy, beauty, and creative freedom to once again take the lead.
These sessions are held gently but powerfully and are designed not just to support emotional release, but to invite profound clarity, creative visioning, and embodied reintegration.
What You Will Be Held Through
Emotional untangling from decades of partnership
Releasing blame, shame, and exhausted patterns of conflict
Metabolizing grief and the tenderness of finality
Honoring your capacity for compassion while protecting your energy
Restoring inner boundaries and energetic sovereignty
Cultivating trust in solitude as a space of creativity and power
Visioning the woman you are becoming—and the life that longs to meet her
By the end of this passage, you will embody this shift and know how to meet your life from within, with clarity and wholeness.
Held at your Retreat Space in Montecito · Beginning August 10
This Relational Rite of Passage is a ceremonial journey of reclamation, designed to support you in fully honoring what has been, releasing what no longer serves, and stepping into the next iteration of yourself—one rooted in truth, sovereignty, and embodied grace.
After years of entanglement, devotion, conflict, and hope, you find yourself at such a threshold. Not only is the relationship itself dissolving—but something deeper is ready to be released: the illusion that things might one day be different, that the version of love you’ve longed for might still emerge from the same place.
This is not just an ending. It is a sacred severance. And it is also—perhaps more importantly—an emergence.
This is a container for emotional alchemy, for the quiet unwinding of hope, for the conscious closing of a story whose shape you’ve outgrown. And it is also a space for radiance to return—for the voice within you that knows you are made for joy, beauty, and creative freedom to once again take the lead.
These sessions are held gently but powerfully and are designed not just to support emotional release, but to invite profound clarity, creative visioning, and embodied reintegration.
What You Will Be Held Through
Emotional untangling from decades of partnership
Releasing blame, shame, and exhausted patterns of conflict
Metabolizing grief and the tenderness of finality
Honoring your capacity for compassion while protecting your energy
Restoring inner boundaries and energetic sovereignty
Cultivating trust in solitude as a space of creativity and power
Visioning the woman you are becoming—and the life that longs to meet her
By the end of this passage, you will embody this shift and know how to meet your life from within, with clarity and wholeness.
Over the course of three or four private half-day sessions, held at Casa Sangha. We will walk a ceremonial arc inspired by the wisdom of the Seven Directions—a map of transformation rooted in elemental and ancestral knowledge. This framework guides the emotional, spiritual, and somatic evolution of this work:
East (Insight & New Dawn)
South (Heart & Vulnerability)
West (Release & Grief)
North (Wisdom & Boundaries)
Above (Vision & Possibility)
Below (Integration & Support)
Within (Truth & Empowered Presence)
Each session weaves together:
– Somatic practices
– Ritual and nature-based ceremony
– Ancestral and intuitive insight
– Creative and reflective integration
– Tools for boundary repair and relational reclamation
An optional fourth session is available to extend the journey into devotion and anchoring.
The Three-Session Arc
Suggested Dates: August 10 · August 24 · September 7
Each session is approximately 4 hours. Suggested meeting times — either 9am-1pm or 1pm-5pm
Session One: The Severance & The Self
(East + South)
We begin with truth—the acknowledgment of this threshold. Through story, ritual, and somatic unwinding, we clarify the shape of what is ending. You’ll reclaim parts of yourself long entangled in old roles and begin to name what you are ready to carry forward.
Ritual opening + mapping the arc of your marriage
Naming the emotional themes: conflict, tenderness, exhaustion
Identifying and releasing unconscious roles you’ve carried
Somatic practice to restore your nervous system
Personal altar creation or object for the threshold
Integration: Grounding practice + intention ritual for self-reclamation
Session Two: The Grief Waters & the Great Release
(West + North)
This is the descent. The place where we meet the ache of what could have been—and release it. In this session, we work with water, herbs, and embodied practice to tend the grief, soften the clinging, and restore the boundaries that protect your radiance.
Elemental ritual with stone + water to sever lingering cords
Releasing the fantasy and unmet longing with gentleness
Compassion for the parts of you that held on for so long
Boundary repair practice and energetic reclamation
You’ll receive a hand-blended herbal bath to continue the ritual at home or I can drawn the bath for you at the completion of the session at Casa Sangha
Integration: Bath ritual + spoken mantra for solitude and clarity
Session Three: Reclamation, Radiance & Consecration
(Above + Within + Below)
Here, you rise. We step into the expansive field of possibility, guided by the self that’s been quietly waiting beneath the ache. A ceremonial completion seals the journey and blesses the path ahead.
Walking vision ritual on the land: listening for what’s next
Naming new values, needs, and future relational blueprints
Symbolic act of embodiment (creative object, offering, or movement)
Completion ceremony to consecrate the passage
Anointing, blessing, and invitation into the next chapter
Integration: Optional voice blessing + future self letter
Investment
Three-Session Journey
$3,300
Includes:
– Three private ceremonial sessions
– Ritual supplies + custom herbal bath
– Completion ceremony
– Integration practices + optional follow-up call
Payment plan: $1,100 per session available
Optional Fourth Session
$1,100
Total for full four-session arc: $4,400
Optional Fourth Session: Devotion, Witnessing & Sacred Reintroduction
A ceremony of return · Anointing your next becoming · Being seen in your wholeness
Session Four: Devotion, Witnessing & Sacred Reintroduction
This fourth session is a ceremonial threshold—a consecrated space for embodiment and revelation, where the self that has quietly emerged through this rite is now fully seen. No longer shedding or unraveling, you return: to self-trust, to relational sovereignty, to the radiant rhythm that is wholly your own. It is a devotional culmination, where all that has been released, reclaimed, and integrated is honored not only within—but mirrored in the field around you. Held in an atmosphere of elemental beauty and reverence, this session unfolds at the pace of your body, your truth, and your readiness to rise.
Creation of ceremonial space — Enter into a curated sanctuary with scent, flora, and elemental objects that reflect your journey
Personal devotion ritual — A self-led offering: movement, gesture, land-based act, or sacred silence to honor your becoming
Talisman or altar creation — Consecrate a symbolic object or bundle to carry the energy of your passage forward
Sacred witnessing by a Circle of Care (optional) — Invite trusted individuals to witness your ceremonial reintroduction, or allow the land to hold this honoring
Declaration of devotion — Speak or write a statement of what you now claim, what you release, and how you walk forward
Final blessing + land-based gesture — Close with an offering of gratitude to the land, sealing the transformation with intention
Integration: Personalized blessing + touchstone to revisit in the months ahead
This fourth session is a ceremonial threshold of its own—a consecrated space to embody and reveal the self that has emerged through this rite. No longer shedding, no longer unraveling—this is the moment of return. A return to self-trust. A return to relational sovereignty. A return to your own radiant rhythm.
A devotional honoring of all that has been integrated, released, reclaimed.
May this rite mark not only an ending—but a luminous reentry into your own life, where you are met, held, and wholly claimed by the woman you are now ready to be